They had an orgasm and you missed out? Unfortunately, women find themselves in this position more often than not. The orgasm gap is getting in the way of us ladies coming -- and that's just not fair. It takes women an average of 13 minutes longer than men to have an orgasm.

Like, crank-up-the-AC and take-off-all-your-clothes hot. While that might seem like the right formula for steamier sex, the truth is that higher temperatures can make flesh sessions sweaty and exhausting. The solution: Go slow. If you dial down the pace, you'll bring your sex life up a notch. And that means you'll give your partner time to catch up. You can be a romantic MVP simply by slowing down.

And when it comes to bedding your girl, you nail it fast and hard, just the way she likes it. Learn more about the slow groove, and you may just realize what women have known for years—slow sex is better. A good rule of thumb: Take the amount of time you think she needs, and double it.

The measure of his manhood is how happy you are. The happier you are, the happier he will be. This is probably one of the reasons that caring partners judge themselves by their ability to make their woman orgasm.