Sometimes intercourse simply isn't possible. Maybe you just gave birth and haven't healed yet. Maybe you're having problems with painful sex. Maybe your partner is having sexual issues like erectile dysfunction, or one of you is ill.
And while penis-in-vagina sex is fun, it can also get kind of boring. Most of us have the mechanics down at this point, and all too many of us have fallen into a routine. But there are all kinds of ways to have sex and be sexual that are just as fulfilling as intercourse. Take that, tired old cultural belief! Like, did you have any idea that a finger brushing the back of your partner's knee could do that before?
What Are the Effects of Not Having Sex for a Long Time — or Ever?
Non penetrative sex can be just as great. You can have an incredibly hot, intimate, mutually satisfying, maybe even sensorially revelatory night in without putting anything in anyone. Kate Lister.
Instead of treating your partner like a machine whose job it is to give you an orgasm, heed the advice of Dr. Carlen Costa, a sexologist and relationship expert from Canada, and change your attitude first. Carlen says.